Choose when your meetup starts and ends.
WhoNet Timer is an active safety check-in for adults when an online connection becomes an in-person meeting. Use it for dates, marketplace meetups, new clients, private appointments, social-media meetups, events, or other first-time in-person meetings. Meetup Tools are included at no additional charge for active Identity Verified Members paying the monthly plan. Otherwise, one limited Meetup Tools use is $0.99. WHO? and WhoNet? remain free.
Verified monthly Members: included. Limited use: $0.99.
Active Identity Verified Members paying the monthly Member plan can use Meetup Tools without an additional per-use charge. Approved Creators with active paid Creator Hosting receive the same included access. Everyone else can buy one limited Meetup Tools use for $0.99.
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Stripe securely processes the $0.99 one-use purchase. One successful payment adds one Meetup Tools use. A non-included WhoNet Timer or MeetSafe Safety Log activation consumes one use.
Start it while everything is okay.
Date? Marketplace pickup? New client? Private appointment? Social-media meetup? Start WhoNet Timer before you go.
Start time → stop time → safety check.
You choose the actual start and stop time for the meetup. At the stop time, WhoNet Timer asks whether you are safe. You have 15 minutes to respond. If you do not respond, NESYA creates an urgent follow-up alert for the configured response workflow. When human response coverage is available, the saved safety plan can be used to guide contact attempts and escalation decisions.
WhoNet Timer is not a monitored emergency-dispatch service and does not guarantee that a person, trusted contact, or emergency service will be reached. If immediate help is needed, use the fastest safe emergency option available where you are.
If you are in immediate danger, use the fastest safe option available to you rather than waiting for the timer. WhoNet Timer is an additional safety layer, not a replacement for emergency services or a trusted person.
Information, privacy, and active follow-up.
WHO? and WhoNet? together are Anti Social WhoNet? meetup protection: information and practical safety tools for adults communicating with or meeting people they first encountered online. Meetup Protection is the use case, not an additional standalone product. They are for everyday people, including adults who may be in vulnerable, high-risk, or stigmatized circumstances. Access to practical safety information should not depend on a person's identity, profession, background, or reason for wanting additional protection.
WHO? — Phone Intelligence
Free. Check a phone number for supported information such as validity, country, number type, phone company, general city or region when available, useful public matches, and community safety reports. Missing information stays unknown instead of being guessed.
WhoNet? — Internet & Connection Intelligence
Free. Check supported websites, domains, public internet addresses, and device identifiers for useful public-facing context such as connection status, secure-site indicators, network ownership, general network region, and other supported safety signals. WhoNet? does not enter private networks.
WhoNet Timer — Active Meetup Safety
Included for active Identity Verified Members; otherwise one limited use is $0.99. Choose the meetup start time and stop time. At the stop time, the user is asked to confirm they are safe. If there is no response within 15 minutes, the meetup enters human follow-up. Staff attempts to contact the user during an approximately 3-minute call window. If the user still cannot be reached, staff can initiate emergency escalation using the safety information the user supplied.
Anti Social WhoNet? MeetSafe — Confirmed Creator Meetups
Included platform feature. ForeverVerified Creators can privately schedule a NESYA Member, the Member accepts, and both sides confirm after the meetup. Mutual confirmation unlocks aggregate Creator representation feedback under the high-threshold No Catfish policy. Written feedback and evidence stay private.
Use the tools together
Use WHO? when checking a phone number. Use WhoNet? when evaluating a website, public internet address, network, or supported device identifier. Use Anti Social WhoNet? MeetSafe to record a lawful Creator/Member reservation and mutual meetup confirmation. If an adult wants an active safety timer during the meeting, WhoNet Timer is included with active Identity Verified Member monthly access; otherwise one limited Meetup Tools use is $0.99.
Privacy remains part of the safety model
Safety information supplied for WhoNet Timer is used for the safety function it was provided for and is not meant to become public profile content. NESYA shows customers the useful result rather than exposing unnecessary internal lookup or implementation details.
Report suspected WHO?/WhoNet? stalking, harassment, or misuse
Important: No lookup, verification process, community report, or timer can guarantee another person's identity, behavior, or safety. Phone numbers may be reassigned or spoofed, public information can be incomplete, and network location information is approximate. If someone is in immediate danger, they should contact local emergency services directly rather than waiting for a timer to expire.
You do not have to handle it alone.
If someone controls your money, identification, movement, or work, threatens you, will not let you leave, or uses force, fraud, or pressure to make you work or take part in sexual activity for money, help is available.
In the United States and U.S. territories: the National Human Trafficking Hotline is available 24/7. Call 1-888-373-7888 or text 233733. Help is available in more than 200 languages.
If you are in immediate danger, contact local emergency services. Outside the United States, contact your local emergency service or a trusted local anti-trafficking organization.
Your safety plan belongs to you.
If someone controls where you go, who you talk to, your money, identification, phone, work, or when you are allowed to leave, you can still choose a trusted person and create your own check-in plan. You do not have to explain or label your situation to use WhoNet Timer.
You choose who should be contacted first. A friend or family member can be your first—or only—safety contact. WhoNet Timer does not assume that everyone wants police involved.
Keep this browser or app available until the meetup is ended.
Do not clear this site's cookies while a Safety Timer is active. The server-backed timer continues even if the page closes, and reopening the same browser can restore the active Safety Check.